Originally Posted by Rockon
I have made a shift in my mindset and approach. Ignoring W making my focus elsewhere. .

That's not a shift....

Because IGNORING those thoughts means that you are still having them in the first place....

Being so busy inside of your own head, working on YOUR issues, that whatever she is doing doesn't even cross your mind..... would be a shift...

Rock, you are still too close to the fire, and aren't even seeing it....

Don't get too lost in GAL that you ignore YOUR quiet time and healing....

Stop looking in the mirror to see if she is following you....