You're only in limbo if you're reacting and waiting for your H to make all the decisions.
Is that behavior that got you here in the first place?
Better to focus on yourself, your goals, your values, and what you want. Become the person you want to be separate from your H and marriage. That is the way the changes you've been making will last and become a permanent part of who you are.
Your husband has already said he is worried the changes won't last.
Are you proving him right today or proving him wrong?
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
