See my signature. BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16 Merry Christmas. RME
Yep. Divorced.
From a religious perspective (Catholic), if I slept with another man that is considered adultery, even if I legally married him first.
Kinda strange, coming from an organization that has covered up so many horrific scandals in the past 20 years, but priests are people too, and fallible.
I think the best course of action regarding standing and for how long, is to sit with your own personal sitch, do a deep dive and decide what does and does not make sense to you, as an individual.
It's between you, your conscious and the God of your understanding.
That's my take.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver