your relationship with your kids doesn't include your wife.

her relationship with the kids doesn't include you.

your kids are all legal adults.

your special needs son is the only reason for interaction and that needs to be focused on him alone.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver