I expect that I will be interacting with W about S today. I am not seeking it out or setting it up but I want to be prepared to stay within my boundaries and be strong when we talk.
How in the world do you expect this then? Did someone on the street tell you? Is it because your W alway calls you on this day to discuss S? Can you see why this comes across wishy-washy?
What are your boundaries? Have they changed recently? Boundaries recommended here were to have no contact.
I would interact with your W about S now as if she got a restraining order on you. If your (S) lives at a community-based home or you with you with in home support services tell them that you cannot be the messenger between them and your W anymore. they will need to either talk with both of you at the same time or they will have to rely any conversation you had with them to your W. This way she cannot bring up her allegations.
M:51 W:43 T:17 M:15 S:13 D11 10/2022 BD/IHS 03/2023 W moves out
