Originally Posted by Kind18
And know that he has to do the majority of the building works himself. You can’t do it for him.
Words are just words. You want to see him taking action. Observe his behavior. Be skeptical. Treat him like a squirrel. No sudden movements from you. This will take some time.

One phrase that sticks in my mind is "It is not that easy anymore"... IE your response for him to just come back without doing the real work.

Working on your personal growth is still important. Enjoying your "free time" is also important.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712