Know that my advice comes from kindness and a genuine desire for you to self-improve. Some members have been like “How does that look exactly?” and your answers are very fluffy, like “working on being a better person, being a good Dad, letting it all go.” Nothing concrete.
Very well put. The more concrete the better.
Rock, if you want different results, you need to interact with her different. The best way to interact with her right now is not to interact at all. If you believe you need to interact with her, give is concrete details beforehand and seek other options. Then you can make your choice.
BttrFly is an amazingly valuable resourse for you. She can be a mirror into ways for you to become rock2.0 that has so much potential to attract your W back. Us guys only have second hand understanding of what a woman finds attractive in male behavior.
I wish you well.
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