Also, this board has a few stories of people letting them back too quickly and easily before it all exploded again.

Like Steve said, it’s too early. Watch his behaviours, not what he says - and make sure it’s consistent.

You are the prize here. He should feel like he has to win you back, not just be gifted his old life that he walked away from.

If he thinks it’s easy to come and go, he’ll go again.