She told me she saw my car parked near hers the other day (I didn’t see her) and she texted asking why/ how was I tracking her. I responded “no I haven’t been” but found out she had blocked my number on her phone. I emailed her saying that. And she responded accusing me of stalking and said if I put a tracker on her car she would report me to the police. She asked what I was doing near her car. I told her I was out running errands and then went out with friends.
She said, “I keep trying to make this work, and you keep making it worse and worse. It’s just so sad.” And she asked me to prove my “story” to her.
Groan.
Typical WW behaviour. They cheat, lie, break a marriage - and then will manipulate things around to paint themselves as victim. “He’s stalking me. I’m so scared. I tried to make it work.” Anything to make themselves feel better about what they are doing.
I’ve said this once, I’ve said it a thousands times Rock - STOP INTERACTING WITH HER.
What is it going to take for you to trip the Band-Aid off? You are literally like a drug addict who gets told time and time again not to interact with her, but then comes here asking for advice on interaction after interaction.
I know it makes you feel slightly more in control if you get to see her or text or email her, because it feels slightly more like it used to. But all you’re doing is making it worse.
Even if you’re not stalking her, you’re going to end up with a restraining order because you keep messaging and calling and talking and interacting with her under the guise of you playing happy families for your “daughter’s benefit”.
Drop the rope mate. It’s a shame you didn’t block her first. Then she might have respected you, missed you, and maybe even thought she was losing something.
