Ok looking for some input while I’m away having a great time with D. I am listening to you and taking action to be strong. This is really difficult to know how to respond to W in spite of my emotions.
I want to avoid the friend zone. W has accused me of tracking her, putting a tracker on her car and stalking her. I’m not doing any of that and I’m not snooping. She has given me plenty of info to not trust her, I don’t need to go looking for any more.
I have discovered that what I am doing is not working in that I don’t feel any closer to saving my M.On the other hand, many things I am doing are working in that I am much healthier, have closer relationships with my kids and friends, and I’m taking great care of my home and responsibilities.