Thanks for clarifying that Kitti! My mind is spinning from what I just read. Betsey you have such a way with words. I sometimes wish you would just spell it out for all of us that have trouble interpreting your interactions (LOL ).
I wish you all the luck with your conversations w/MW. I hope that the patience you are planning on continuinig does not leave yet another trip to limbo land. Bets, for some time now you have been probing and questioning and basically pushing your H for answers. I'm not saying that it's a bad thing, obviously you have gotten him to realize that it is HIS ship and he is acknowledging it. I just was wondering, how you have come to conclude that these probing questions are okay now as opposed to before? Just looking for insight into my own sit....
I know that you've read the MLC stuff but I'm excited coz he is facing those final fears and if the timeline is correct, he will soon be passing through that window of acceptance and shutting those doors behind him! WOW!!! That's so exciting.
I'm on the same journey w/you Bets and may use a few of your phrases in a convo w/H today since you have the better tongue for speaking w/eloquence.
Well all I can say is that I am hopeful that you will be able to get K to make that decision soon. Time is your friend but having you been saying that all along? I don't want to rain on your parade-maybe it's coz I'm at the same frustration level as you-but K has held out before. What will make this any different from before?
One more note.....VA beach was GREAT. Met some of these great folks that we are with now - KK, GD1, Cabanaboy.......just to name a few......what can I say? It was wonderful. Take care. Tootles...................
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