I am in no contact with H but want to organise some nights out for the next month. Due to D's anxiety, I would prefer if H could stay with her while I'm out.
What would D prefer? From my experience kids manage their anxiety better when they have a hand in the outcome. Having Dad around for an evening pushing his agenda upon her would likely ramp up her feelings.
Originally Posted by MA1970
If I'm honest, I think there is a little bit of me wanting him to see that I'm getting on with my life.
I understand wanting to show H you are getting on with your life. Best way to do that, is to get on with your life. Without checking to see if he is looking or not. Believe me, he is. The spouse watches their old life and those they left behind.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
