Thanks Dats, I appreciate your feedback and input and yes you are correct. W lives with MIL, has not given me any indication or reassurance she is not in contact with OM or wants to R. Therefore, I am focusing on what’s before me and what is important for my growth and becoming who I want to be.
I like that revised list and, “Another list now could be based off your progress and what actions you take to get you where you want to be.”