Thanks Kind and R2C. Good advice & something to think about there Kind in terms of the function of me asking. If I'm honest, I think there is a little bit of me wanting him to see that I'm getting on with my life. This is the third day where I feel I can detach and see the bigger picture so I am grateful for both your insights.


H - 52 Me -53
M - 20yrs T - 26 yrs
S 19, D 16