He has said that we will speak on our relationship either tonight or tomorrow. I will update.
I am not looking for answers to these questions, but for you to think about.
How many choices on how you (Rejoice) respond to this? How would you normally respond while you were married? Before you were married? When you were single? Now? How many options that you have not considered?
I recommend being gone...that could be the completely wrong solution for you, but the perfect response for someone else. Or the other way around. We do not know. You just have to evaluate all of your choices, make a choice and live with the consequences of that choice, good or bad. You can then evaluate the effectiveness of that choice and use that as part of your decision making process in the future.
Trusting your gut feeling helps.
Ask yourself this: Is what I am about to do or say going to bring us closer together or push us farther apart? What is my goal?
I would have an exit plan.
H: I want to R talk now. W: Okay. I have about 10 minutes. I have plans to meetup with friends and need to leave at 5:45 (or whatever).
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
