I cannot thank everyone here enough for the advice. I just don't have the words to express how wonderful you all are. Some of the things said are difficult to hear, but they are all right on. H is en route back home right now. He has said that we will speak on our relationship either tonight or tomorrow. I will update.
H 41 W 36 D16 S15--my stepchildren D11--biological M 6, T 13 Bomb/EA 1/19/23 Separated but living together