One of the most powerful things the newbies can do is think about other posters sitch and use logic to give them sound advise. There is no emotional attachment. It then comes back to help you in your own sitch.
How many times do you think I have thought about other peoples sitch, then be able recognize it in my life and respond much better than I would if I just did what I felt like?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
