My simple advice is this - you need to make it very clear that he has to work to get you back. The worst thing you can do is show him that you’re sitting there waiting, because the instant he knows that he also knows he can still f around with OW in the background.
My first thoughts are that it is highly unlikely that he will
Originally Posted by Rejoice
approaches me tomorrow night stating that he wants to be with me and still maintain a relationship with the OW.
If he does you do not want to be in a three person relationship.
You need to have strong boundaries and absolutely do not want to be his back up plan.
If you need to not fight with him then just validate what he says, I understand you want whatever he says. And then walk away from the conversation.
