Not a vet at this but in my opinion H thinking you are seeing someone else is good. He’s jealous and obviously worried he might lose his backup plan. While I wouldn’t say I am seeing someone, I wouldn’t say I’m not either. I wouldn’t even acknowledge it. Let him stew on it and worry. I also agree that your weight loss is worrisome. I lost roughly 30lbs in a couple of months however, it was with an intentional plan. Fasting, low carb, running, and weight training. Plus I had plenty to lose. Just not eating is unhealthy and will also contribute to making your feelings of depression worse. You need calories and your body needs fat for normal functions such as hormone production. I don’t know a good solution. I remember the loss of appetite due to anxiety. It’s tough. Some hard exercise would help most likely. Is there a facility where you can swim? Go to the gym and work on your upper body while your knee heals. You gotta get moving. I know it’s hard when you just want to curl up in bed and cry. We’ve all been there. Try writing it down and telling your kids you plan on exercising X amount of days. Having a plan and telling people helps hold us accountable. Watch some Youtube videos, I find that helps motivate me. Hang in there, it will get better with time.
