Dunn posted over on Rock’s thread that playing happy family didn’t work out and hasn’t worked for others. That is a concern of mine that I didn’t properly express in earlier post. Not sure how to deal with that scenario. Also, my father in law has been in the hospital for a couple of weeks. Now he’s in rehab and will be home in a week or so. He will require a lot of attention and my mother in law can’t do it. W is currently taking care of her like a fourth child since he’s been gone. She’s let herself get in a physical state that is sad. Lots of stress W and myself. I keep my opinions about mother in law to myself obviously and help as needed. My father in law is such an active guy and it’s hard seeing him go through this. He should be fine eventually but it may be a long road.