She also said that she tried the last 2 weeks to love me, but can't make herself. I thanked her for honesty and left it at that.
That type of answer gets you into friend zone...and that is not where you want to be.
First, she has to miss you. Second, the resentment has to fade away. Third, she needs to respect you. At some point after that, the attraction may return, then the love. Admiration is in there someplace as well.
I find that "misinterpreting" and using humor and keeping it extremely light and fun with sexual undertones is a much better way to attract than to be serious.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712