I love you, Betsey... I really do. You are awesome. He should be stunned... I hate to say it... but I see his decision, too. I almost see relief in him, too... do you? I think he might see your flashlight showing him the way...
Keep it up... and remember what you are doing, cause I'm going to need your guidance.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.