R, we've seen this a lot. As you detach the WAS feels the loss of control over the LBS and start to become affectionate and inclusive in order to reattach you. Remember he's moving on with her but until that is solidified he wants you as Plan B.

When will you know if it's real? First, the OW will be gone. And then after time has passed and he has been consistent (think minimum of 6 months), then you can start thinking it is real.

So you have to be careful right now. Going all in on this well likely result in him retreating back to his position of wanting out.

Remember time and consistency with OW out of the picture.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018