Update
When I returned from helping my friend after her surgery H was very affectionate.
He says he missed me, he wanted to cuddle all night, it was quite interesting.
He has been steadily texting me more often, called while I was out of town to tell me a funny story.
Just some developments I thought I'd mention.


H 41 W 36
D16 S15--my stepchildren
D11--biological
M 6, T 13
Bomb/EA 1/19/23
Separated but living together