Update When I returned from helping my friend after her surgery H was very affectionate. He says he missed me, he wanted to cuddle all night, it was quite interesting. He has been steadily texting me more often, called while I was out of town to tell me a funny story. Just some developments I thought I'd mention.
H 41 W 36 D16 S15--my stepchildren D11--biological M 6, T 13 Bomb/EA 1/19/23 Separated but living together