Hi Wolf,

Haven't followed your sitch for some time. Not really looking for answers from you, but more for you to reflect on:

How much have you changed since you arrived here?
What changes do you still want to make?
Do you know what a healthy relationship looks like? Can you move in that direction?
What type of IRL support network do you have? Has IC helped? Do you need more?
Why are you not "active" with your partner? What role did/does your behavior contribute?
Do you enjoy the drama? Can you change your behavior to reduce the drama?
How similar are X and GF? Did you attract the same "type" of women?


I wish you well. Make good choices.

Regards,

R2C


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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