Nothing has moved forward with my situation. H is still living in another room. I have shown more independence and I have seen slight reactions from him. My anxiety is truly fleeting where in the beginning (almost 4 years ago) I was constantly anxious.
I have to say IC is the best thing that I have ever done for myself. Between mine and H’s situation and the pending divorce between my employers, it can be a lot and honestly, my H is a dream compared to the legal issues facing my bosses.
I see that a lot of people I used to communicate with are no longer on the board. I hope they know that they helped me a lot.
I know going forward, I will totally be ok. I am still making my plans and H really seems to be in his own MLC limbo. Believe me, I am not checking on him, and when it goes for a long while, he checks in with me on his own.
I do not plan on living like this forever, but with extenuating circumstances with my extended family, including elderly parents, this might be the plan a little longer. This just helps me become stronger with what I want.
