Thanks Joseph, DnJ & Ready 2 change for the link. I've read Eagle3's threads. It's scary how long she continued, what a brave woman. I'm not sure I could keep going in limbo land for that long. I've been talking to different people and they are really helping me see some of the downfalls in H's behaviours during the marriage. I'm not sure I would want it back looking like it did even if he did.
We've been radio silent for a week today (he moved out last Tuesday). I had to send him a message about childcare today but kept it very formal and sent via email rather than text. He's not responded, not sure what I do if he doesn't respond? It was about going to a uni open day for S(19), who originally wanted to go with his dad but doesn't anymore so H / dad will need to sort evening meal out for D while I take son. Hoping I get a response without having to chase. I would rather have remained no contact but as I said, it was a very formal email with no niceties.
