Thanks all for the replies. Definitely makes one feel needed.
Butterfly: five trips
So, she comes back tomorrow. I do not feel like seeing her again in any form, but I have to remember it’s about the kids. She called last night to let me know that she will meet with her lawyer Friday. She wants to be amicable about all this and would rather do it out of court. She’s done and wants to be with him. Nothing I can do about that - it’s her road, not mine. The last few days have been rough, but compartmentalization helps.
Anger has found its way in, but that’s controllable. Don’t know what to do next. Lawyer time, I suppose. I’m also angry at our mutual friends because they knew. Mind you, these were the same friends that set her up with him back in 2006 at her return from Iraq party. I thought about calling them out on it - maybe less for my own well being but to let them know they are ***holes.
