I'm sure he is feeling guilty. But if he wanted things to be different they would be, and he knows that too.

Keep encouraging your daughter to reach out and have a relationship with her dad. Be there for her if he continues to falter, but don't get involved.

And please remember he very well may miss his kids, but that doesn't mean he misses the
marriage, so for now he's going to take that as pursuit and pressure which as you know is counter productive to what your goal is.

Hang in there

Last edited by JosephS; 03/06/23 03:10 PM.
Me: 40
EX:37
Together 17 years
Married 16 years
5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11

BD 03/06/20, divorced 12/23/21