well you finally did it. it was brewing for awhile, but i do believe that finally he can see now how very important this was
don't regret a single thing you did (i know you don't anyway) because this was a long time coming - you deserved every bit of the release - lots of things this week has built up to this, and you know my feelings that 'everything happens for a reason'
{{{betsey}}}
good things to remember - he NOTICES your changes - he feels good about doing good things for you - he LISTENED
ok, time for a mild whack
i really KNOW deep down that you are tired of this limbo land, but i just gotta give you something to think about - look how long it took you to get here and look what it TOOK for you to get here at this moment - you have had your counselors, your books, this board, your friends (on and off this db) and let's just take a look at what k had
um - gary
see the picture - betz - i am NOT saying anything except that he hasn't been priveledged to have the same help that you have had over the last 16 months - sure he hasn't availed himself of it either but it does seem that he is FINALLY starting to figure it out - finally willing to admit that he played a part in all this - he sees your changes and is finally realizing that they are real and probably thinks, how the hell did she do this???
so keep that in mind before you make a final decision - you deserve the world for all the changes you have made - but if not breaking up your family is truly the goal here then 'consider' a little more time
it seems to me bets, that since you have finally GOTTEN IT that you are not being patient enough for HIM to get it...just my opinion mind you and i would respect you whatever decision you make and be behind you 100%
