Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
No news is good news? I think the forum needs to get more people on the forum, via word of mouth.. This is a rare place for people, as it is has some exceptional experience. And the Author of DBs books has given the marriage world a gift, that many dont know about.
It's quiet right now because people are working behind the scenes to get the updates done as quickly as possible. Also, some posters are may be waiting to see how all of the changes shake out.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I think the forum needs to get more people on the forum, via word of mouth.. This is a rare place for people, as it is has some exceptional experience. And the Author of DBs books has given the marriage world a gift, that many don't know about.
I have passed out many copies of the book IRL as I meet LBS's.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
I think the forum needs to get more people on the forum, via word of mouth.. This is a rare place for people, as it is has some exceptional experience. And the Author of DBs books has given the marriage world a gift, that many don't know about.
I have passed out many copies of the book IRL as I meet LBS's.
Its the same with me. Its not enough.. People need to want it too.
Been a long time since I've been here, Rock. Hope you are well. Lots new, but nothing specific I feel like posting about. I'm doing well. Son is doing well. My cat and dog have both passed on, sadly, and I'm not ready for new pets. My new job has 3 dogs in the office, so I will get my fix 5 days a week, happily, but I miss my fur babies. I know that when I can listen to Chris Stapleton's Maggie's Song without choking up or bawling like a baby it will be time for a new furry friend.
I guess I feel it is important to say something to people on the "other side" of the big D. 10 years out, here's some quick thoughts:
1. You will never really know if or how much you've healed in terms of relationships until you get into the next one.
2. Divorce is the gift that keeps on giving. There are so many layers to this loss. Doesn't mean one can't heal, process and prosper. Just means that sometimes something unexpected might pop across your bow that you have to deal with.
3. There will inevitably come a time when each of us feels deep gratitude to the ex for leaving.
That's all I got!
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
