Cadet is right as always. Nothing to be gained from small talk. In fact, small talk can land you into the unenviable position of the friendzone. You don't want to be friends with her. So why do things that only a friend would do?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018