I realize, Cadet, that you're acting as a Moderator. I appreciate what you do. The questions, however, remain.
And, frankly, given the amount of divorced people who stick around here to help the newcomers learn the Divorce Busting principles?? I think the questions deserve an answer for those people.
I think that this is a better place to have this discussion.
Not on the thread of the announcement.
You know right now (and this is true) I am making a stew in my slow cooker. You get out of it what you put in.
DB is going to give you what you put into it. It is true that I am acting as a moderator and the truth is that I have learned so much on this forum.
I was divorced against my will and did everything I could possibly do to save my marriage.
I learned lots of things here and felt the need to pay it back.
Do we have a crystal ball. NOPE.
We all go through different stages of life and how we deal with those stages is what is important. The only way to avoid some of these stages is to stop living, I don't suggest that method.
We all have to keep taking one step forward, one day at a time.
