Important Announement!!

[bttrfly]

Let me be more explicit.

I can't stand for a marriage which no longer exists. My husband is now married to his affair partner.

I did not want this. I did everything I could to DB this.

So now that I'm divorced, HOW will this new board support me, and people like me.

Michele said

Most importantly, this forum will be where posters who have recently divorced and are trying to navigate their lives after post divorce can post and look for advice and/or support.

So how exactly is that going to happen??

There is no relationship with my exh to DB.

I'm alone here in the wilderness trying to figure out what the heck I'm supposed to do with the rest of my life.

I'm doing the best I can with the tools I've learned and with support from people who came before me.

The decision to remove the Surviving section removes that support system.

It's punishing those who never wanted to be divorced and now find that they are.

It's also punishing those who have stayed on to help the newcomer and pay it forward.

So again,

1. Exactly how will people who are now divorced be able to get help and support?

2. how is this new forum going to support people like me?

3. how is that different from what we already have?

More importantly, what is and isn't allowed to be posted if you are no longer married, cannot DB your now defunct marriage, and are left twisting in the wind, post a divorce you never wanted in the first place????