Those are seemingly diametrically opposed directions.
Again, I'm not trying to be obtuse here, but I would like explicit clarity on exactly how people who are divorced can get advice and support?
Most of our marriages don't survive this.
That's reality.
Despite our best efforts at standing, DBing, working with coaches, taking the advice here, there are a LOT of people, myself included, who are now divorced who never wanted to be.
How will this new forum support us?
How will that differ from what we already have?
Not sure I agree that these issues are opposed. The thing about DB is that we can only control one person and YOU (not you bttrfly) are that person. ie you can control yourself no one else.
