Betsey,

Your daughter sounds awesome - in fact she sounds like . . . hmmm, oh yeah - YOU! What a thoughtful, considerate, insightful, wonderful family you have.

I have experienced personal tragedy with similar to your D7's TA. An ex in fact. And the embarassment and shame of the community made the pain even harder to bear. Their pain must have been extraordinary to take such a step and the mourning is even harder without the proper outlets. You are blessed Betsey for your thoughtfulness and the caring you take with all people.

Totally