This weekend was fairly uneventful. She started sleeping in the other room. Is what it is. I may put up some of my Navy photos that I had in my office. No real talk that would amount to anything this weekend. She leaves on her trip Wednesday. I’m trying not to think about that. One thing I have noticed is she has been taking more trips within the past year than ever before. It’s funny, she’s been at her job for over 10 years and has accrued a lot of vacation, but right before BD I tried to schedule Us a vacation with the kids but she said she didn’t have enough time to use. The amount of time I knew she has used did not even come close to what she’s earned. Sigh. Another thing that’s been bothering me.
I took the kids to our favorite hiking place yesterday. We had a great time. The kids didn’t say much about their mom other that they wish she’d get off her laptop/phone and pay attention. I told them to ask her to do stuff but I guess she’s busy. Oh well. My heart breaks at the thought of them being upset.
I haven’t snooped since time I posted about it on here and I’ve been trying hard since her bags are packed in the other room.
Let me ask everyone a question: for those of you who’ve had spouse that cheated, how did you react? And how did your family react at the news of BD? I honestly don’t know how I’d react if it came to light that she was seeing someone…and I’m not sure I would tell my family about that part.
Last edited by DnJ; 02/27/2305:26 PM. Reason: Corrected wording.
