Catching up on your sitch, Rockon. I don’t know how you do it. You seem to have it together, man. Have a question and I may get hammered about this, so if I step over please forgive me. Since there is at least one OM, why are you wanting her back? Cheating is, well, the ultimate disrespect in which the she has zero respect for the marriage and you. I’ve seen people saying that cheaters can’t help themselves, and that’s a crock - they know exactly what they are doing. And since that trust was broken in such a brutal way, it can’t be regained again because that will always be in the back of one’s mind. A leopard never changes its spots. Take my sitch, for example - I’m here because I want to save my marriage and make sense of it all. However, if she’s cheating, that’s it. Take care, brother. I value your comments.