“Originally Posted by Rockon She also told me that she recently ended a friendship with a man who was not respecting her boundaries. Friendship? Or potentially more? “
I don’t know. I am not snooping. But from her hints etc, I speculate that this is not OM1 but someone else she is talking about. I think it might be a playboy kind of guy that she befriended (inappropriate relationship in my marriage boundaries for my wife to have but she is not answering to me and is doing whatever she wants and I am not trying to control her at all). She told me the other day, “you have no idea what it’s like as a woman dealing with inappropriate behaviours from men.” I told her I believe her.
And there have been hints that there is trouble in paradise with OM1. But it’s not clear and I am leaving her to her own devices there. My impulse is to rush in and fix and save but this is not the playbook.
In any case, I perceive it important for me to keep GAL, be not boring, and continue to give W more space than she is asking for.
