When people disappear without explanation from the folks making that happen, it makes the rest of us wonder when the axe will fall next, or if we'll be the next to be expunged, or even what it is we may or may not say to turn the delete button onto us. How is that creating a feeling of safety?
That's a great way to create a feeling of walking on eggshells waiting for the other shoe to fall.
We all came here to save our marriages.
A very scant few of us were successful at that.
Hopefully, the majority of us were at least successful in saving ourselves, and made some strong relationships with other posters in the process.
There are some great vets here who no longer post.
WHY?
There are some people who have been here 5-10 years, who are posting less and less often.
WHY?
A 'never explain' attitude is exceptionally short-sighted, if one is concerned about the over-all well-being of these boards and the people posting, especially the newbies.
Leads one to believe that TPTB really don't care.
Again, that doesn't lead to a feeling of safety.
So, sorry 40, I heartily disagree with you.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
