here are some interesting thoughts on apologies, timing, etc.

https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2222899&page=4

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver