Originally Posted by Rockon
I forgot to mention:

W said that she is working on respecting my boundaries better. She referenced a time recently that I stood up for myself when said I was not OK with being insulted after she had insulted me. I actually had to say it twice but just yesterday she said she has been thinking about that and wants to make those changes to respect me better.

There ya go, from the horse's mouth. Well done friend. Keep standing up for yourself. You're earning her respect back. Essential. People do not want to partner with someone they do not respect.

Originally Posted by Rockon
She also told me that she recently ended a friendship with a man who was not respecting her boundaries.
Friendship? Or potentially more?


Originally Posted by Rock
Conclusions, analysis? Not much. I just need to keep on track of paying attention to what is working and doing more of that, focussing on myself not trying to “nice” her back. GAL. Continuing to make a lasting changes for who I need to be.


"Letting people be wrong about you or a situation while keeping your peace and focus is the most misunderstood power move you will ever make." Morgan Richard Olivier

I'm loving this quote. It's so true. Keep it close, read it often.


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver