I'd give you a C-

"Letting people be wrong about you or a situation while keeping your peace and focus is the most misunderstood power move you will ever make." Morgan Richard Olivier

Polite, no questions.

Treat her as a room mate you barely know.

Nothing changes if nothing changes.

Stop acting like the man she's leaving.

Do a 180

ex. you come in, she's on the phone, rushes off. Go into the kitchen and get yourself a glass of water. Don't acknowledge her or her phone call. Don't be a jerk, if she says something to you, reply with a vague but civilized answer.

"I'm going away for a week"

"Thanks for letting me know," said in a neutral manner, like you don't care one way or the other.

Walk away, go take your shower or work on your models ... whatever solo activity.

Do you see the difference?

Last edited by bttrfly; 02/25/23 09:39 AM.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver