W comes across as so incredibly stressed and that is very difficult for me to see. I have enjoyed seeing her relax and enjoy herself with our kids/family - not eldest S yet mind you. And she has remarked about how enjoyable, peaceful and fun it has been. And from time to time she has a big reaction to me, vents. I listen don’t argue and ask her at times to tell me more and she does. I might say I can see you’re upset or I hear … I am standing up for myself well if she gets disrespectful, i speak up and say I need to be treated with respect. This is more of an 180. And I’m enjoying life without her too.
