A lot of DBing LBS would hear her unhappiness with you “avoiding her” and going out for beer and tacos. So they’d apologise and start being more available.
But that’s the opposite of what they should do. You’re going out, having fun, being independent - and she’s noticing.
Remember DBing - what you used to do didn’t work. You have to try something else!
And I think the fact she’s noticing and asking where you’re going and what you’re doing is actually a very good sign! Keep doing it.
I’m sure me getting out and GALing is one aspect. She’s unhappy with everything in her life right now. Nothing is fun. Has no desire to do much if anything. I can’t fix that and until she decides to get some counseling I guess she will continue to be unhappy. Thanks for the encouragement.
