Originally Posted by JosephS
Just becareful. Between you saying your libbo is back and he's relying on you, to me I'm wondering if he knows you are "deseperate" and willing do to whatever to keep him happy and there so he's taking advantage of it.

Hi Joseph, I completely agree with you. He's moving out next week and whilst that will be really painful. I am getting so sick of his lies, manipulation and gaslighting. He's a different person than the man married and loved & that's really messing with my head. It hurts to know he's choosing to pursue her but equally there is no relationship for us at the minute & I genuinely believe he won't hit rock bottom where the gravity of his actions are realised until I stop supporting him. I really wish I wasn't in this situation. Had a good old cry with my walking buddy whilst out tonight. That's definitely a positive, I'm managing to walk 4-5 miles every night and really enjoying it.


H - 52 Me -53
M - 20yrs T - 26 yrs
S 19, D 16