A lot of DBing LBS would hear her unhappiness with you “avoiding her” and going out for beer and tacos. So they’d apologise and start being more available.
But that’s the opposite of what they should do. You’re going out, having fun, being independent - and she’s noticing.
Remember DBing - what you used to do didn’t work. You have to try something else!
And I think the fact she’s noticing and asking where you’re going and what you’re doing is actually a very good sign! Keep doing it.
