My wife says she is done

[Dats000]

This week I talked with my attorney he gave me instructions on what to do next on working towards a divorce decree. I also made a call to a financial advisor that someone referred me to and got on his calendar next week. So these things are helping me with my financial anxiety. Little they may sound it’s gets me going and keeps my self esteem going.

I was having some issues with D11 basically not showing my love to her and just getting upset because of whatever. Her Mom could do nothing wrong in her eyes. I’ve changed my approach by being more of a consultant parent. Advising her what to do, but showing her love first. everything‘s going way better. In fact we are having movie night tonight with dad’s home made popcorn.

S13 had his birthday this week. We all went out as a family for his supper. He got to choose. He was so grateful for the gifts he got is such a nice kid. I love him so much.

wife left yesterday on a trip with an another friend that’s getting divorced so I’m with my kids for a long weekend. We will be busy with their activities at least one of them each day if not both of them this weekend.

I’m having a small level anxiety around 10 hours a day. Starting right when I get up in the mornings. Of course I am worrying a lot about expenses and assets when my wife moves out at the end of March. I’m keeping up with my exercises and the meditations and book readings, etc. I have to get out of the house more by myself. I hear of lotta people here talking about all the people they call to go out with to help them GAL. I don’t have a lot people to call. There’s a few but they are all married and have kids and have their own lives so it’s kind of hard.

As far as me detaching and GAL and validating my wife’s conversations. nothing has changed. She hasn’t shown any more interest, but we are living together, so maybe when she moves out, there might be some change where she would want to reconcile. I’m not giving up or holding my breath. No matter what happens. I will be a better person coming out of this.