Yeah. I think I probably need to go stay with a friend in order to detach in that way.
I have a very very hard time saying no to him, as I am also enjoying myself.
I have been very VERY careful to stress to him that this is a temporary, friends with benefits type arrangement, and that I'll be moving on soon. Which seems to make him rather desperate for me and even much more ready to initiate everyday conversations, etc.


H 41 W 36
D16 S15--my stepchildren
D11--biological
M 6, T 13
Bomb/EA 1/19/23
Separated but living together