Job - thank you for the wise words. I know your advice is spot-on, it’s just so hard to do anything. Ive read a lot of your posts and responses to know your advice is truly wise indeed. Thank you for stopping in!

DnJ - your statement about her path is perfect. I have a friend who told me that she is on her own road and it doesn’t have room for me. That I need to do for me and the kids. Thank you again!

Ready2 - you’re right, being tight-lipped is great at this time. I’msure it will come out when it’s ready. It’s the waiting the makes it hard.

DW17 - like you said, I regret doing it. But I couldn’t help it. Not sure what I’d do if I found out she is having an affair and/or our kid is named after him.


Thank you all for responding. I feel as if it’s a brotherhood here.